Monday, November 30, 2009
Thanksgiving!!
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
**My Grateful List**
1st and foremost: Riley
-Where would I be without this kid? Through this past year of dating him, and now being married to him, it's been a huge adventure! He's always there to make me laugh, listen to me go on and on about how I hate backtracking, people who jaywalk, and to just fulfill all my "Best Friend" requirements. Most nights when I get home from work or class, and he's at work, there's a note waiting for me on our rug. Usually it's just something simple like last week's "Hey babe, can't wait for you to get home so we can have our movie night. Love you, xoxo Riley" But it means the world to me.
-He's the absolute hardest worker I know. He goes out and works 12.5 hour days every.single.day. to help provide for our little family. It's got to be taking a lot out of him, but he never complains. He always has a smile on his face when he comes home, and is willing to spend time with me when I'm sure all he wants to do is sleep.
-He scrapes the snow/ice/frost off my car every morning, and he does ALL our dishes! He told me it'll be his job as long as I cook for him...cute. I am SO blessed to have such an amazing husband. (Still getting used to calling him that...but I'm learning) Seriously. He's my best friend, and literally my other half.
2-Our families
-My mom and dad have been incredibly supportive to me my entire life, and it continues now that I'm married and on my own. My mom still offers to go grocery shopping with me, and take me to lunch. She misses me at home, I'm sure ;) She's always there to help out and offer her advice, and she's even watching Benny for us while we get things settled at our house. I'm really grateful for her.
My dad not only helped us find our house, but also helped us finance it AND fix it up! He was there during every spare moment he had either painting, or doing some other kind job. I get random texts from him every once in awhile with Seinfeld quotes, or other funny stuff. He makes me laugh, and he's such a great all around guy. He puts everyone else's needs before his own, and does it with a smile on his face.
-My brother and sister think I've been nicer to them since I moved out. Not sure how much truth there is to that statement, but I really took for granted getting to see them every day. It's fun to go back up there every once and awhile and dip in to what they're up to.
-I'm really grateful for my in-laws, too! Wes is a genius contractor, and helped a ton with our remodeling! He's incredibly sefless and put our projects ahead of a few of his own that I'm sure he wanted to get done. Sharon is such a funny lady. She makes the craziest jokes sometimes that make everybody laugh, even though we'd never imagine them coming out of her mouth!
Also, all of our amazing friends. I don't need to name them all, they know who they are. Seriously guys, I owe all of you so much. You've always been there for me and help my life be as awesome as it is now. I think I have some of the greatest people ever as friends, and I feel SO blessed to have each and every one of you as a part of my life.
The other things aren't people, so they don't need much of an explanation...
-My job. I have THE best job ever. I get to work in a church environment every day, and I love serving the people of the church. The clients make me laugh and I'm really getting to know some of them. My co-workers are the greatest. They've all got me by like 20-45 years, but hey, they're some of the coolest people ever. I look up to their amazing examples so much.
-Our comfy DI & KSL couches. They're amazingly comfy, and REALLY cheap.
-Our yellow kitchen, complete with my rooster painting. Love it, they make me happy everytime I go in.
-My cell phone. I have it with me everywhere, so a text or call to a friend or family member is just a click or two away.
-My digital camera. I take it with me everywhere, too, so I can capture things that happen to me throughout the day. It made my wedding DVD awesome!
-My car. (See previous post) But I still love it.
-Comfy boots. I. love. shoes. Especially boots. One of the only good things about winter.
-But, I'm still grateful for the seasons. If we didn't have snow, I wouldn't appreciate summer as much. So here's hoping I don't get too depressed about the cold weather this season.
-School. I'm learning so much, and I enjoy all my professors. Even the crazy ones.
-The Office & The Amazing Race. Only two shows I watch religiously. They give me something to look forward to each week, and it helps that Riley and I share a love for them, because it brings us closer together as we discuss each episode. I know that one is pretty far fetched and lame sounding, but seriously, we love them.
-This blog. I like being able to look back at everything I've done since I'm not a great one at keeping journals. Also, I like to stalk my friends that I don't see often and be aware of what they're doing!
I'm sure I'll look over this and think of a billion other things, but those are the things that I've found myself grateful for this past little bit. I went around the house today and took pictures of our cute house, so I'll probably post those pictures later tonight or tomorrow! We hung some decorations last night, and tomorrow (hopefully) we'll be going through our wedding pictures with the photographer, so I'll share some of those, too.
Thanks for reading my incredibly long Thanksgiving post!! I hope everyone has a chance to sit down and think over the things they're grateful for.
Monday, November 23, 2009
New Moon viewing party!
We dropped Carolyn off at home that afternoon on our way up to lunch with my family. It was my dad's birthday on the 16th, and Carter's on Saturday (the 21st), so we went to Famous Dave's to celebrate. My grandpa, grandma, and my family all went, and it was a great time. Riley and I gave Carter a set of pocket knives (courtesy of Riley...of course...) and my parent's got him a pellet/BB gun. I don't think he could've been more happy with his gifts. Perfect for an 11 year old boy!
Riley and I wandered around the mall for a few minutes before my hair appointment, and both came to the conclusion that the mall is just TOO busy this time of year. We didn't find anything too exciting, but we'll be going back to find Riley another pair of jeans here pretty soon. He loves the multiple pairs of Buckle jeans I either bullied him into buying, or bought him myself, so he'll need a few new pairs for the upcoming months. Going back to that store always reminds me of the fun times I had working there. Made lots of fun friends, and loved working with clothes. Awesome.
We went back to my parent's house, and used their computer to buy us six tickets to the 11:30 pm showing of New Moon!! We had made plans to go with Jared, Sammie, Jordan, and Alyssa. Before the show, we had to watch Twilight to catch up on the series, and made an arrangement of things for dinner, including frozen pizza, Ravioli's, and fruit cocktail out of the can (Jared...). We all headed down to the Gateway and found our seats. Perfect, dead center of the row, front middle of the theater. Yes.
The movie watching experience included quite a few memorable quotes. Mostly coming from Riley during the feature. Some of the highlights were the following:
(Jake's first appearance in the movie) "What? Why is his shirt still on? This is NOT what I came to see."
(When Jake takes his shirt off to help with Bella's head) "Yes. He is SO hot. THAT'S what I'm talkin' about."
(At the end of the film) "What?!?! Why the FREAK would you choose the sparkly gay vampire over the werewolf?! He made you motorcycles, what is WRONG with you?!"
Needless to say, he ended up getting quite a few laughs from the audience, and also a number of punches from me.
This sparked a bitter debate between all the members of the Gold family on Sunday night when we gathered to watch The Amazing Race. Before starting the show, everyone had their designated time to speak about who their vote was for, and it made for a pretty heated and intense debate. Team Edward or Team Jacob. The results ended as follows:
Team Edward: Carolyn & Shrena
Team Jacob: Riley, Bethanie, Sharon, and myself
Team Alice?: Wes & Austin
I think we should all go to the movie again and make "Team Mike Newton" shirts instead. Seems fair to me.
Also: The Amazing Race? Huge letdown this week. We've all been cheering against "Team Zebra" and they finished this leg of the race last. Sweet, right? Wrong. Turns out it was a non-elimination round. Ugh, we all thought we'd be able to say goodbye to her whining and bad attitude, but they get to have another chance. Oh well, I guess that means one extra week of the show.
On a good note, Riley and I found where our ward is!! We went to a random ward that started at 1, because we didn't wake up in time for any other blocks, and didn't think the two o'clock Samoan ward would do us well. The bishop, his counselors, the ward clerk, the stake president, and the stake clerk were all there trying to help us find where we were supposed to be. We found out that our ward meets clear up by Eaglewood golf course, and it starts at 1. We even met with our Bishop! He's a super nice guy, and also several people introduced themselves to us while we were there. Needless to say we're excited to start attending a ward where we're actually supposed to be!! Yay!
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Our 70's countertop
That being said, here's a fun little tidbit of info. We bought a replacement slab of counter, only to realize that it's at least 3 inches too long, and therefore wouldn't fit at all. We'd have to get a custom sized piece if we were to redo it. We started looking into countertop refinishing instead, but haven't gotten too far into the search yet. Today before I went and took an anthropology test, I spent a good two hours with our current countertop. This involved really getting up close and personal with it. We got a little sloppy with the paint job in the bathroom, and while we were replacing things, it was the only working sink we had, so we ended up setting open cans of paint all over it, too. That being said, there was a TON of stuck on paint ALL over it. During the painstaking time I spent scraping the paint off with various tools (I couldn't find a razorblade till I had almost finished. I'm not going to say what I used before, because Riley MAY get upset about it, but what he doesn't know won't hurt him), I came to develop a feeling of toleration for the strange attempt at marbling that was made with it. After deliberating, and deciding how exactly I was going to go back on my word, I may in fact...like...the countertop. I know, I know...I'm not one to change my mind about things. Not sure at this point if it's really a "like" or more of a "I'm just getting settled into a dust/work/project free house and I don't want to start something else".
So for now, the countertop has found a small little place in my heart.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Fun weekend with awesome friends!
Instead of being home alone, we ended up going out to dinner with his family at Chili's. Riley wasn't feeling too well after, so while my grandma and aunt came by to drop off some goodies for us they found at the DI, he mostly slept. These goodies included two matching end tables, and a fake tree for the living room! Sweeeeet. Doesn't get much better than cheap, nice furniture. They look great! Stay tuned for some pictures. I know I always do that, make a post without pictures...but it's because I'm at work and can't upload pictures from my camera from here, so you all will have to be patient. Even though most of you that actually read this blog have probably seen the stuff in person by now...oh well... So anyways, with Riley running a pretty high temperature, we decided to call it an early night. Which was amazing, because we were in bed by like 11, and didn't get OUT of bed till nearly 11 am on Saturday. He doesn't get much of a chance to sleep in ever, so it was nice!
Saturday was a blast. During the day, Riley and his dad did lots of little jobs around our house. They put in the baseboard in the kitchen, installed our oven and microwave, put all the vents back on, etc etc. It was SO nice! While they worked, I put stuff away in the second bedroom, and went and returned a few things to Target with my mom. That night, we had a few friends come over for a house party! It was filled with the 8 of us playing "Battle of the Sexes", Mario Kart, and eating a ridiculous amount of pizza, breadsticks, chips and dip, and soda. Doesn't get much better than that. There will also be pictures of that coming soon, too, so stay tuned.
(As a side note, Saturday marked my 1 year anniversary of my job. My next post will probably talk about all my highlights of being here. Love it.)
Sunday we woke up early to get ready for our "9 am" church. We got to the building, and it was deserted! We didn't go to church last week, so we didn't get the memo that it was Stake Conference. Good thing, too, because it turns out we didn't even have the name of the right bishop. Only apartments through #240 that attend that ward, and ours is #321. Dumb. So we went to stake conference at the huge conference center off of 2600 s. at 10am instead. We still have yet to find out where our building is, the name of our bishop, or what time our actual ward starts. So wish us luck for next week :S
But the day was an overall success, because after church, our friend Clayton stopped by to visit and see the new place. We watched Star Wars on our sweet TV (which we found out yesterday is HD, by the way. It was free, so the price was right!!) and just chatted. Then we went over for dinner with my family and played the Wii for awhile with my mom, brother, sister, and grandma. Hilarious. Then we finished off the night at Riley's parents house watching the Amazing Race. The father/son team got eliminated, which we were sad about. We really liked them. Here's hoping that next week "Team Zebra" gets eliminated. I think we're all getting sick of the whiny black girl on the team...Go Globe Trotters!!!!! They're the house favorite I believe.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Ben Franklin. Hit? Or miss...?
Excited for the weekend! We're having a house warming sort of party on Saturday with our closest friends. Making dinner, watching movies, and playing our fair share of Mario Kart. Bound to be a GREAT time.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Nearly complete condo!
I went shopping with my mom today and bought a few more necessities for the house. IE; a toilet bowl brush, a broom, a dust pan, a utensil separator, the shoe rack, an ironing board, and some matches. Speaking of matches...a lit one of the cute candles we got for a gift and realized when I got to work tonight that I left it burning. Oops. So hopefully our house won't be burned down by the time Riley gets home...but if it is..at least the candle smelled good for a few hours?
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Busy busy day!!!
After our trip to Bed Bath and Beyond, my mom headed home to pick up Carter from school, and I went out to a warehouse somewhere WAAAAAY out west to pick up our entertainment center and DVD case. Which we got for a screaming deal, by the way. We've really lucked out with lots of stuff like that throughout our marriage so far! (IE our Anniversary Inn rooms which would have totalled over $700 but we got for less that $300). After passing Wendover I wondered if I had gone too far? Not really, but seriously, this place was like HOOPER west. (This is for you Jared and Sammie...) Needless to say I successfully made it home and got the boxes into the condo.
Then I decided that since we no longer have power tools living in our kitchen, it was past time to get some groceries. So I went with my budget, found a few coupons, and went on my way. There's a little family owned grocery store in N. Salt Lake called Winegar's, which is like an equivalent to Kaysville's Bowman's. I loved shopping for food! It was my very first time going shopping for the two of us by myself, but I think I did a pretty good job!
After my grocery stop, I came home and put things away, and Riley came home for a few minutes between jobs and started to put together the entertainment center. He made some significant progress in just a little while. I was really impressed, even though I should be used to his incredibly advanced handy man skills by now. Seriously, the kid is a genius. My mom came over for a little while to bring us our dishes and to help me wash and put them all away. Then I went to dinner with my parents and siblings, and now I'm here sitting in class. Which I probably should be paying attention in...but obviously I've found more entertainment in doing this!
Oh, and as a sidenote, I just want it to be recorded somewhere that I got a VERY solid "A" (99%) on that Western Civilizations test I was griping about having to take the day of our wedding dinner. I'm pretty pleased with this accomplishment. Go me.
Monday, November 9, 2009
It's done! We're married!!!
On the night before the wedding, we had an adult dinner party at Joy Luck in Bountiful and invited our aunts and uncles and close friends. Riley and I both come from large families, so we decided aunts and uncles would be the extent of the family we could invite, otherwise we couldn't accommodate everyone. Even with just them we had a group of nearly 60 people though! It was a great turnout. We had a microphone go around the room to everyone and got lots of good advice from the old married couples, as well as solid advice from our young single friends as well. The highlights were Riley's grandma telling us that, (paraphrased) "Everyone used to say that you should never go to bed angry, but that's NOT true. Everything seems way worse than it really is at night. It's dark. It's dreary, and looks bleak. In the morning everything usually gets better. However, if it doesn't (looks straight at me) you let. him. have it."
Also, Riley's uncle Cliff taught us a few handy tricks to use around the house. In order to avoid dirty dishes, simply eat everything over the sink. Also, it's hard to go through an entire gallon of milk with just two people before it expires. Therefore, he suggested mixing the expired milk with double stuff oreos, so you can't tell the difference between that and the chunky milk. Yum.
Riley was determined that nobody had EVER seen us kiss. In fact, he addressed the entire group at the dinner asking if anyone had ever seen it. There was a silence, and a shaking of heads, until my little brother chimed in that he had! Wes (Riley's dad) asked Carter to come up to the front of the room with the microphone and tell everyone of his experience. Pretty sure everyone thought he wouldn't actually do it, because he's a pretty timid little kid. But he did. He marched right up to the front, grabbed the microphone and said, "Well...I was up in my parents' room, and Riley and Alyssa were in the backyard playing with the dogs. And I saw it. They kissed.............*exaggerated pause*...........THREE times." Of course the entire room then proceeded to explode with laughter, and needless to say, Carter was the man of the hour. He looked at us with a face of "Ha. Stuck it to ya with THAT one." It turned out to be an ongoing joke throughout the rest of the wedding proceedings, and everyone saw us kiss a few times after that (over the altar, ((Shrena complained that since she was behind me, she didn't get a great view of that one)) during pictures, and after cutting the cake), but EVERYONE kept track of their own personal number. I'm sure we'll be hearing about all that for years to come.
After the wedding dinner, we took a few of our friends and family over to the condo to see it before it got completed, and we toured them through the clubhouse. Then we were obligated to watch that day's episode of The Office, and since someone deleted it off the TiVo at Riley's parents’ house, we watched it at Jordan's with he and Alyssa before calling it a night.
The day of the wedding was overcast, and our journey to the temple started a little after 9 am. Riley and I drove up separate from our parents since we had to get there a little earlier than them. We were both hungry, so we stopped at Wendy's before arriving at the temple. Nothing like little snacks from the dollar menu to tide you over! The ceremony went flawlessly, and the cute man who conducted did a great job! The room was PACKED with our endowed friends and family members. It was so neat to see all our close family there to support us, as well as three of Riley's closest friends all sitting together. He has the greatest friends, they've been a huge support to use, and let's be honest...Jared likes me better than Riley anyways :)
It was freezing outside the temple, and one of Riley's aunts had the awesome idea of bringing hot chocolate and hand warmers, so everyone enjoyed that as we took group photos and lingered around the temple. Riley and I had our photo shoot, and my toes nearly froze off. Seriously, no joke. They were past the hurting point when we finally got back inside the temple, and our family sat in the waiting room with me as I unthawed. Despite the weather not really cooperating, it was amazing.
The reception was awesome, too! We had a HUGE turnout, and ended up standing in line, with NO breaks, for nearly 3 hours because our line was so long. We have AMAZING family and friends who came out to show their support. Our hostess had to break up the line for Riley and I to have some time to cut the cake, and throw the bouquet and garter. But we had time to see everyone and spend some good time catching up and talking with people we hadn't seen in awhile. All our guests said the food was great, even though the six of us didn't get any that night (six meaning us and our parents). They packed some soup for Riley and I to take, as well as some breadsticks and sweet roll type things were sent with our family. The cake also turned out GREAT. It was absolutely beautiful. The flowers looked amazing thanks to Riley's cousin Sarah who works at the Flower Patch. She did such a fabulous job, the reception center looked gorgeous. I don't have enough good things to say about all the people who helped with the whole reception, in any way. Seriously, it couldn't have been better.
Riley and I left our reception and spent our first night in the Treasure Island room at the Anniversary Inn. The themed room was fun, but the rickety bed meant for a hard night's sleep...we woke up and went to our parent's house to grab some things I had forgotten, and we opened our gifts with Riley's family. We kept track of EVERY present and card that was received, so don't worry, thank you notes will be coming shortly!!!! The second night, we spent in the Twilight Room at the Anniversary Inn. That one was SO much fun! It didn't have too much to do with the actual Twilight books, but it was gorgeous. Riley was tickled with the king size bed, even though took up less than half of it between the two of us. He thought that was the greatest thing ever, although the cheese and cracker platter that we got to choose with the room was also a hit with him. It was massive, and very yummy. Sunday we embarked on the journey to Tahoe. We got there in pretty decent time, though it was dark when we pulled in. We went grocery shopping and got ourselves all outfitted for the week.
We had such a great time in Tahoe! The lake was beautiful, the weather was perfect, and we couldn't have asked for anything better. We went horseback riding, hiking, wandered around the shops and the town, and altogether just had a week of relaxing. It was so nice to go and have the time together without any stresses. I didn't take ANY homework with me (which I'm paying for now...) but it was well worth it. We owe Riley's dad BIG time for letting us use a week he had accrued for his timeshare.
We came home a day early to a nearly completed condo! Our carpet was put in early Friday morning, and we were home early that night. We got all my stuff moved in that night thanks to the help of my parents, Carter, and Jared and Sammie. We were incredibly grateful for their help. We got all of Riley's stuff moved in the next day, and spent that evening playing Mario Kart at our house with Jordan, Alyssa, Jared, and Sammie after a yummy dinner at El Matador. We watched the Last of the Mohicans, too, and had a great time. We LOVE our friends and couldn't ask for anyone better!!!
We spent Sunday trying to get the problem with our water heater figured out. Turns out we have the water turn off for the entire building, so we have to get special clearance to turn it off. Our neighbors are going to hate us after all the late night work and loud noises, and now this! Oh well. From those that we have met, it seems we have some cool people living around, so it shouldn't be a big deal. We're hoping that after today we'll have hot water again! YAY!!!!!!!
This has been a ridiculously long post, so thanks for taking the time to read it. Your patience shall now be rewarded by getting to see a collection of pictures from the last little while! I haven’t had a chance to upload many pictures from the actual wedding and reception that were taken with either of our cameras, so quite a few of these have been stolen from my friends, but they’re still great! I’ll post some from ours when I get the chance. In the meantime, here ya go!!